Well I had a great night last night, dancing at Stag. The ev..

Well I had a great night last night, dancing at Stag. The evening started off slow. Tuesday’s are also amateur night so we had two new dancers trying out their stuff for the very first time. They always have nervous energy and are unsure of themselves so I try to give them some guidance and a little bit of a foundation to work from. My number one piece of advice is always to just have fun. Have fun and the rest will follow. Even if you’re awkward people will gravitate towards you if you have a smile on your face and are enjoying yourself. Also, in that same vein it’s good to remember to not take yourself so seriously. We tend to be our worst critics and others will treat us the way we treat ourselves. That being said, the evening started to pick up around midnight. I met a very interesting trans gay pornstar with a degree of autism (we talked about it) that had had top surgery and appeared very masculine and put together. I was honestly very impressed. We shared stories about our experiences in the industry and how much love and support we tend to receive from people that follow us. It really is an amazing thing. I wanted to ask him so many questions but eventually was pulled to the stage and ended up giving a really nice tall man a dance that was from San Francisco. The night then led to a few more fun conversations and ended up with a bright eyed older woman in her mid 40’s that was just giving me lovey dovey eyes that I couldn’t help but notice. I ended up giving her 2 lap dances back to back that turned into a much needed energetic sexual release for her. I could tell she hadn’t been held closely in a very long time and needed somebody to love her. I intuitively gave her everything I felt she needed and did my best to make her feel like a million dollars. After the dance when I approached her and her friends she was crying tears of joy and was expressing that I had no idea how much she needed that. It was really special for me to see. I felt grateful to be a part of her healing journey and to help her in the way that I did. It was one of those times where I really felt like I made a difference for somebody. Sometimes being a stripper is so much more than people may think it is on the surface. In any case, it turned out to be a great night, the money was good, and I made it home safe and sound.