OTKS = Over The Knee Spankies So lets talk Spanking! I che..

OTKS = Over The Knee Spankies So lets talk Spanking! I checked myself into a Sci-Fi pod hotel in Japan after a heavy play session OTKS as a treat during my aftercare. Im VERY much what you would call a cozy claustrophile (LOVE small, cozy confined spaces, like nooks, cages, etc...*ahem* oh look theres a small Lovelock sized cage on my wishlist just saying...) When spanking, cupping the hand tends to create more thud while holding it flat with fingers spread creates more stinging sensation. A sting you feel on the surface and is clean and sharp where as a thud is deeper and penetrative, more like an ache. Some people have a preference so its always good to ask so you can adjust your technique. Also striking with a forward motion versus the bounce back motion also changes the feeling, as does the classic spank and grab motion. Warm up first, get the bl0.0d flowing with softer strikes, let the muscles relax and arousal build. Massage the lower back, hips, butt and thighs, the more relaxed we are, the better spanking can feel. Watch their body language for cues that they’re beginning to get turned on. Focus on spanking the ass. Try to avoid impact on or above the tailbone, outside of the buttocks, lower thighs, the back of the knees, and where the bottom ends and the thighs begin. It’s easy to damage the tailbone or kidneys if your spanking gets out of the safe zone. And anyway, most people find that it feels best on their butts. If rythmn is something you need to work on or enjoy focusing on, spank to music with a nice even beat!! If you’re not sure what you or your partner likes, start slow and ask. One great way to do that is to spank once and ask them to rate it on a scale of one to ten. Another way is to do two different strokes and ask which one felt better. And remember that what we like changes when we’re turned on and warmed up, so feel free to mix it up a bit. Personally? I like the reminder every time I sit down, that warm, pleasing discomfort that I was marked by them in this way. It makes for instant daydreaming, reliving the session in my mind, the heat of it, getting excited all over again...