Today we are talking BALLGAGS! But also bits, breathable gag..
Added 2020-09-20 14:22:38 +0000 UTCToday we are talking BALLGAGS! But also bits, breathable gags, dildos gags ring, funnels, inflatables, muzzles, penis gags, medical and over the mouth gags! As the name implies, ball gags are used to keep your partner's mouth open during sensual role play, the balls are usually made of plastic, rubber or silicone, and attached to a harness that straps around the back of the head to keep the ball gag in place. So! Your mouth also plays a key part in a whole bunch of sexual and nonsexual acts, so relinquishing its ability to behave in a mutual manner changes the dynamic from a power play perspective, and can enhance other sensations that are focused on elsewhere. From the moment your partner places the gag in your mouth, you are submitting to their control, where they are depriving you of your ability to speak and make clear defined noise. Over time, with your mouth extended unnaturally and open due to the ball, you drool in a manner that adds to the kink of humiliation, and your powerless position reinforces acts of dominance. When speech is restricted it is advisable to agree upon a gesture or series of gestures that clearly express the intent of the sub before diving into any sort of bondage play. For example, tapping three times on the back of the hand could mean, 'This is too intense, please ease up,' while tapping twice could mean, 'The gag is too tight and needs to be loosened or removed.'" And just so we're clear here, having this talk is a must. Though bringing up the conversation may feel a bit awkward at first, the tenets of BDSM practice are that it should always be Safe, Sane and Consensual 💗 Have fun kittens!
