

Good morning from Australia! Coffee & kink! ☕💗🙏 Here is my broken in, swollen, bruised, thicc CAKE during a demonstration of proper spanking techniques in front of 300 people. I was wetter than an otters pocket, the exhibitionist in me eats that shit up I'm so glad more subs and switches are hosting spaces and being vocal in the community about sadomasochism. So much BDSM content is written by and for Dominants, possibly due to the assumption that us submissives just lie there and get stuff done to us. But bottoming is a skill, and one that deserves to be taught – and celebrated – as much as Topping. Training your body to respond in certain ways, learning protocols, being self aware of limits, recognising headspace shifts, increasing pain management and pain processing ability through mindfulness & exploring positive ways of thinking about/processing intense sensation during a scene, all that wonderful shadow work that goes into preparing for a truly immersive, dedicated scene 🙏 As a switch, I strive to be the best submissive I can be just as much as I strive to be the best Dominant I can be. Mindfulness, wellbeing, psychology and kink go hand on ass... I mean... hand in hand... 💗