When we are told we cannot do something that we want to do ,..
Added 2021-01-06 01:10:19 +0000 UTCWhen we are told we cannot do something that we want to do ,even if we do not have a particularly strong desire for it , those restrictions make us want to do it even more. Violating taboos creates risk ,and taking on a certain amount of risk can heighten arousal and excitement. This is precisely why public sex is another extraordinarily popular fantasy. The thrill of potentially being caught in the act amps up the intensity of the situation. Because some tend to have more restrictions placed on their sexuality in general, it stands to reason that they have access to plenty of potentially appealing taboos. And among those many pleasurable roadblocks to sexual gratification, cuckolding is one of the most prominent. They are really, really not supposed to let themselves become cuckolds, let alone to long for it. According to this logic, a man who shares his wife with another man doesn’t just violate social and moral dictates for monogamy, but he also violates traditional notions of masculinity. In the eyes of many men, cuckolding is the ultimate form of emasculation and naughty enjoyment. It may, paradoxically, be precisely because of all this that cuckoldry fantasies are so appealing.
