Many of us have to unlearn shame around sexuality, and every..
Added 2021-01-06 01:00:01 +0000 UTCMany of us have to unlearn shame around sexuality, and everyone’s barometer for what constitutes “kink” is different. Before bringing up anything to a partner, know that your interests and preferences are valid. Come from a place of vulnerability. Getting it out that you’re feeling vulnerable usually invites your partner into holding a compassionate space for you. Say something along the lines of, “There’s something I’d like to talk to you about, but it’s hard for me because I’m afraid that maybe you’ll think I’m weird. Do you have some time to talk?” or “Hey, do you have the bandwidth to talk about something? I’ve been hesitant to bring it up because I’m scared, but it’s really important to me.”
