Despite what we’ve been told, oral sex isn’t actually a part..
Added 2020-09-13 16:56:31 +0000 UTCDespite what we’ve been told, oral sex isn’t actually a part of foreplay. You actually have to build to it. Going right into oral sex as an opening act could maybe be hot if you’re already really turned on, but that should almost never be your opening salvo. It’s really important to get the body and the nervous system sensitized to levels of arousal where that kind of direct stimulation of the clitoris is wanted. In other words, slow your roll. Make out for a while first, give each other a massage—do things that build up the anticipation before you dive in.
