Dom me, spank me, pull my hair? I definitely have a kinky s..
Added 2021-01-26 00:41:44 +0000 UTCDom me, spank me, pull my hair?
I definitely have a kinky side to me. I’m curious about sex and sexuality. I want to explore what is out there, how it makes me feel, what it makes my body do.
It’s a huge turn on for me to do more than just fuck. Physiological kink, impact kink - it all turns me on!
Important Things to Remember When Exploring Kink:
?discuss rules and boundaries before play starts. Ensure you have clear consent to play! What are you ok with? What are your limits?
?you can start your exploration small. You don’t need to purchase a $250 flogger for your first time. Start small, see if you like it, and then invest in quality.
?check in during the scene/play. Ask questions like is this ok? Is that too hard? (can be different if you have discussed a Dom/sub arrangement and had prior contract)
?use a safeword as saying ‘no’ doesn’t always work when you’re dabbling in kink. Choose a word that’s completely random and out of context.
And do lotssss of reading! I am always reading about safe kink play and educating myself - so the same! If reading isn't your thing, try YouTubes! There is tons of education out there. You have a better time when you’re confident about what you want and what to do??
