Some ENM (ethical non monogamy) advice for you guys today? ..
Added 2020-12-05 00:32:53 +0000 UTCSome ENM (ethical non monogamy) advice for you guys today?
CONSENT = AN ENTHUSIASTIC YES!!!!??
When it comes to anything sexual ensure you ask for consent first. ALWAYS!!!
?Women, ask consent before grabbing another women’s chest!
?Men, ask consent before rubbing a ladies ass or chest while standing beside her!
?Women, ask consent before using impact play items someone at a party or event!
?Men, ask consent before you start to add some BDSM to the plat session!
These are examples of when consent has been violated for ME!!! And some times I’ve said something - and some times I haven’t. It’s can be challenging to speak up and educate about consent.
You can always ask consent sexily with questions like:
“May I touch your breasts??”
“Your ass looks fabulous in that skirt, do you mind if I squeeze it?”
“I love using this impact toy on others - would you be interested in bending over?”
“Is it ok if I squeeze your neck?” and as you are doing so, her check in with the pressure by asking “is this ok?” “Harder?”
And if someone responds with no or not right now - that’s THEIR choice to make! Thank them for being truthful to themselves and you and move on!
