

STEP 4) ASK ME IF IM DIGGING IT (LIKE IT) Seriously, ask me if I like it, communication makes for better sex FOR ALL INVOLVED. Not only does this add a good intro to dirty talk, but also, not all vulvas are created equal. Vulvas come in all shapes, sizes, colours, makes, models, etc, so you're going to run into some different preferences - all vaginas are beautiful and all deserve to be spoilt with love and safe pleasure - More pressure or a certain tonguing may be better for one person versus another I prefer a lot of pressure and ALOT of rubbing. They may prefer it slow, or hard, or in circles, or up and down- I prefer hard and up and down 🤗 If you're already passing this with flying colours (in which case, bravo, pal, bravo), asking how I like it is a 100 per cent turn on anyway.