Good evening, or morning, or afternoon, my dear little spark..

Good evening, or morning, or afternoon, my dear little sparkling stars. Take a look at this beautiful New Year’s arrangement my mom made for our home. For those who don’t know, my mom is a talented craftswoman and a highly creative person—she does a lot of embroidery and crafting, and the fruits of her labor can be found in every corner of our house.

I want to talk about a topic that sometimes causes me genuine frustration. It’s a… sensitive subject in today’s tolerant, progressive society. In real life, I’m quite blunt, but here, of course, I can’t express myself so freely, so I’ll be careful.

I was watching this one blogger. Her channel usually covers curious topics—conspiracies, murders, global mysteries. Even though the focus of her channel is clearly not beauty, she prepares for every episode with elaborate makeup and, honestly, rather revealing outfits. This has always made me a little uncomfortable, but, well, to each their own. However, today I watched her video about McDonald’s, and she outright said that she loves eating herself into such huge love handles that she can’t fit into pants the size of a parachute.

The thing is, this girl is objectively very slim, and she never hesitates to flaunt her perfectly flat stomach. And at that point, my patience finally overflowed. You are a person with an audience of thousands. Not only do you position your channel as educational while presenting yourself like a bordello queen, but you also have the audacity to fish for compliments through inappropriate self-deprecation. And this happens within 20 minutes of advertising gym wear—short shorts and a crop top showing off her bare midriff.

So, do you have body dysmorphia? Great, people will only support you—make a dedicated video with a clear title where you share your mental health struggles. But enough. ENOUGH spreading your nonsense to a massive audience of girls and teenagers. Stop presenting the idea that a female blogger’s content is only interesting if she looks like a sex worker. Stop lying that you’re not on a celery-stick diet. Enough, I’m sick of it. If you can’t shut your ignorant mouth or engage your one brain cell, go to OnlyFans and do whatever you want there, but don’t broadcast it to a general audience.

For many years, I was a victim of patriarchy, mocking and judging women for nearly everything. Now, I truly love and support women—unfortunately, thanks to low testosterone levels, they’ve been crushed as individuals for millennia. Yet, some women evoke a strong sense of disgust in me. These are women I don’t personally know—bloggers, actresses, singers, and so on. Lately, I’ve been thinking about why that is, and I’ve tried to articulate my thoughts.

What infuriates me are women who actively sexualize or emphasize patriarchally defined traits in their content, which is supposed to showcase activities completely unrelated to sexuality. Formally, there’s no intent to provoke sexual arousal or attraction in the audience. However, when describing their content, they fail to specify that their goal is to showcase eroticized physicality or behavior, instead presenting it as completely normal, everyday activity. For example, a girl posts a photo about hiking in the mountains, and instead of showing the views, emotions, gear, or experiences, she showcases her three-meter-wide butt in tight khaki shorts as the entire frame.

For a mature person with a developed personality and healthy self-esteem, it’s obvious this is about her butt, not the hike. But for the vast majority of viewers, it’s not. You might think, “It’s everyone’s personal choice what to post.” Yet somehow, fraud in a store or in services is legally prosecuted, but the lies spewed by these modern, tolerant, bold, progressive influencers are not. And they’re spewed not on 18+ platforms but to vast audiences of kids.

Remember the wonderful body positivity movement? Every actress probably jumped on that bandwagon. Where did the love for one’s body go when Ozempic came along? I thought self-love was about finding the right exercise, a good therapist, working on your hormones, and proper nutrition. But no, it turns out you just inject some crap, create a shortage of medication for diabetics because you’re swimming in money, and voilà. And don’t forget to show off your fabulous results in tiny thongs on a heavily photoshopped beach photo at some luxury resort.

All this madness is served under the guise of female empowerment, independence, and, of course, the famous fight against sexualization and patriarchy. But you know what? Men couldn’t care less. Those with brains have always known that women are people. The rest won’t hesitate to entertain themselves with teenagers, babies, animals, trees, and who knows what else.

But ordinary women, inspired by these so-called goddesses, will start wanting emaciation, hyperlordosis, surgeries on perfectly healthy bodies, tons of makeup and creams (to look like faces created by armies of surgeons, cosmetologists, and Photoshop), hair dryers and masks—without realizing that the celebrity in the ad is wearing a wig. Thongs instead of cotton underwear and impractical bikinis instead of comfortable swimsuits, leading to gynecologist visits for bacterial vaginosis.

Women constantly face criticism that what they do isn’t “feminine” enough, that they aren’t sexy or appealing enough. And these content creators—“streamers, doctors, students, chefs, fishers, travelers, gardeners”—shoving their boobs and butts in everyone’s faces fully reinforce this.

I hate this hypocrisy. I hate when friendly fire against women is disguised as a fake fight for equality, all while nurturing sexualization and shame within the female community itself.

Women are individuals. Surprise—they’re people too! Funny, witty, incredibly intellectual. And also very vulnerable, subjugated by invented standards for thousands of years. I want to believe that one day all these games with sexuality will remain on platforms like OnlyFans. And for the general audience, a woman will be seen, first and foremost, as a human being.
As of today, people who should be criminally prosecuted for promoting a destructive lifestyle, fraud, and parasitism are held up as famous role models.