

He’s on his way over and I’m getting myself ready…
Before a play date, I usually will masturbate. Not to ejaculation, but I will edge several times. This helps me get grounded and present in the moment, out of my head and into my body. Pre-play edging also charges my sexual energy so I have more to give and enjoy while being intimate. Before studying Tantra and conscious sex, my pre-date routine was rushing around to barely be ready in time, multi-tasking and typically on my phone. This led to less satisfying connections and more of a feeling of lack or emptiness after a hookup. Try bating before your dates and notice the difference in bond and pleasure you experience 🫂🍑🍆