• Ive missed you • Sometimes, even when living together, li..
Added 2023-08-08 20:05:33 +0000 UTC• Ive missed you • Sometimes, even when living together, life can get hectic. It can become too stressful for a sex drive, too fast paced for a quickie. This leads to lulls in intimacy. When one or both of us have too much on our own plates, the first thing to go is the sex. Recently, my wife’s emotional life has been a lot on her shoulders. So instead of escaping through physical pleasures, we have shifted our focus on reconnection mentally and emotionally. This is cuddling in bed for a day and eating our comfort foods. Painting and coloring, taking up new and old hobbies. Going on drives and hikes. Taking time to enjoy what we love about each other and what makes us “us.” Last week we took a day off work to just reset and if I do say so myself it was exactly what we needed. Getting to come together, from a fresh mindset, and THEN reconnecting physically makes the experience so much more fulfilling. It’s like breaking a fast and tasting your favorite meal for the first time. She smells like the first hint of rain after a drought and each drop tastes like the fresh water in a natural river flowing through me.
