Free Use relationshipA free use relationship contract is an ..

Free Use relationship

A free use relationship contract is an agreement between partners that outlines the terms of their relationship, including sexual consent and autonomy. It gives partners the freedom to have sex with each other at any time, or in any place, as long as consent is always respected.

When I first heard the term “Free Use” I wasn’t sure what to think.

The idea intrigued me, but the more he discussed it with me, the more complex, kinky and slutty it seemed. I found myself caught between temptation and fear.

The thought of total sexual submission, with no need for him to ask for consent each time, felt liberating in theory. Yet, the fear that came along with it was hard to ignore. It made me wonder: why do I feel pulled toward this kind of arrangement but also afraid at the same time?

To clarify, free use doesn’t always  mean objectification or lack of respect…. but in our case it can.

This is achieved more easily by specific rules and negotiating how one partner can use the other. This results in an increased sense of control and submission in the relationship.

1. Consensual power exchange.

In a consensual power exchange relationship, there is an agreement by both partners on the power dynamics that are involved. Each partner takes specific roles of being dominant or submissive. This agreement clearly defines the limitations and expectations for the relationship. This was easy to define, as I know my place is to be used by him 🫦

2. Establishing boundaries.

Honesty and open communication are crucial in a free-use relationship. Both partners negotiate boundaries, norms, and limits that will ensure comfort for each other during the process. His sadisticness is one of the things that attracts me to him. Our limits and boundaries are minimal. Very minimal 🙈

3. Control and submission.

The dominant one is the controlling partner, who makes the submissive partner submit to their needs and wishes in a consenting manner. This power dynamic is central to the relationship’s foundation.

So… just under a week of being a free use slut… and it’s insanely hot 🥵

Despite his sadisticness, he’s breaking me in gently I think; either that or taking his time planning things for me.

He’s developed a trigger phrase for me, training me to obey when I hear the command.

The command is “Daddy needs pleasing”

When I hear this I know I am to sexually satisfy him no matter what he asks for or where we are. Not even a week in and those words instantly lubricate me, ready for him 🫦

I will go into the scenarios and situations in which he’s used me in another post. But this initial one is to update you all on what it is to be a free use slut 😈🫶🏻❤️🫦😘