Being CURIOUS = being interested in OTHERS. It's not all ..
Added 2023-01-06 06:00:07 +0000 UTCBeing CURIOUS = being interested in OTHERS. It's not all about you!! I learned really quickly about being curious when I was in therapy at the Ra*pe Treatment Center with probably the best therapist I've ever had. I would say something or she would say something and instead of just moving on to the next thing, she would say, "Well let's get curious about that." And we would explore either what she said or what I said, drilling down until I had incredible clarity, and was able to change something for the positive. I love the concept of being curious. I realize I've been a curious person most of my life, and it's gotten me very very far in life, and I don't mean superficially. I'm talking about where it COUNTS… About being respected, being effective in my endeavors, and having a victorious life, despite any unfavorable circumstances. One of my biggest pet peeves about people is when everything is about THEM. They have zero curiosity. In fact they have such minimal curiosity, if any, that they won't take the time to finish reading a text you send, or fully listen to your voice message/voicemail. That is so insulting to me, as if what I'm texting or voice messaging them isn't worth reading or listening to. Everybody - including me - is fucking busy!!!! But these entitled, self-absorbed types prove to me that they will never achieve victory/peace/true happiness in their life if they continue with their current, thoughtless behavior. Focusing on what's right in front of you is so important. BE HERE NOW. BE IN YOUR BODY. Stop being so DISTRACTED and using that as an excuse for not responding to your friends. It's rude to not respond to someone, and goes hand-in-hand with not being curious. These people feel entitled, they have little compassion, and don't have a clue about how to live life successfully. I'm anti-flaky people, and flakes have zero curiosity. #ifeelbetternow xo
