Is the way I express myself really the same as the way people see me? 🤔
I know that I can't please everyone, and I can't please absolutely everyone. But I would like to believe that my sincerity is important. It's very important for me to be myself, to say what's really on my mind, and to do what my heart feels like.
But is it all accepted from the other side in exactly the same way? I don't know, and I'll never know for sure. But on my side, I always give myself completely to the person if I feel that way. And, of course, it's always nice to receive reciprocation in return.
But I don't forget that it's all for my pleasure, and even if it's not mutual, I get high from what I feel! After all, that's the only thing we can know for sure: ourselves. Other people's hearts are dark, so we need to deal with our own first ❤️️ What do you think about that?
Should there be a secret in a girl? 🙈
I've always heard from people phrases like - a girl should have a mystery, so that a guy would be interested! And that always surprised me 🤔
Why won't my openness and sincerity attract a guy? Do not fall in love in the burning from the senses eyes, not the goosebumps on the skin from kissing, not a night of talking to the morning ...? 😍
I had always tried to be sincere, and I didn't understand what kind of mystery there could be in me. And now I don't even see the point. It seems to me just a pathetic manipulation and a way to get attention! 😱
And what do you think about it and do you find secrets in girls attractive or the opposite repulsive? Let me know in the comments, or if you're shy, in private messages! 💋
Motivation or discipline? 🙈
Sometimes I wonder which is more important. When a wave of inspiration and motivation hits me, I feel good and uplifted! But that usually passes quickly. This state is always wavy, it rises and falls back down to the bottom.
But it's so unreliable... What about discipline? Sometimes it's harsh, sometimes it's bloody cruel and difficult, sometimes it's as if it's breaking and it feels like there's no more strength. But the truth is, it's more reliable. We can rely on the result that discipline gives us, and in the end it wins
I've never really liked extremes and I think it's ideal when it comes together! Then it works like a perfect mechanism. So what is prevalent in your life? 🤔
If we listen to the voice of reason, we will never have love. We will never have friends. We'll never go into business because we decide, "It won't work," or, "She's going to hurt me. Or, "I've fallen in love a couple of times before, so..." It's all nonsense! You don't have to miss out on life. Every time you jump off a cliff, grow wings as you fly down 🌹
Many people find it hard to explore the shadow side of themselves because when they find themselves lying in a puddle, they immediately think, "Is this the real me? How awful! Is this really all of me? I can't show this to anyone, because they won't love me. Still stop the comments of the same split loved ones: "So that's how you really are, it turns out! And I thought..."
Polarization and splitting of personality is the scourge of modern society and the easiest way to control split people, influencing one or the other half.
It's much easier to perceive different sides of yourself when you realize that you contain both, and the other, and the third. And plus and minus and zero. And the yellow, and the blue, and the green that comes from mixing yellow with blue.
You are more than the sum of all your parts.
You are both someone who can cry sincerely in church and someone who will gladly take the biggest bite when others are hungry. And someone third.
You're the one who loves one single woman, and the one who could have sex with a random disco acquaintance. And someone who doesn't, but dreams.
You're someone who can be crystal clear in one thing and nauseatingly murky in another. And someone who is composed and half-shadowed.
And someone who can heal and someone who needs healing. And an impartial witness to that process.
At different moments in life, you are the one who rejects, accepts, or is selective.
You are the one who presses on, turning off your senses, but can be quite vulnerable. And someone third, who seeks the middle ground.
Someone who has strong weaknesses. And also the sides that he's working on right now.
There are places where you did everything right. And there are places where you screw up big time. And there's something in the middle.
You are multifaceted and more in yourself than the sum of all your parts. It's not a question of nurturing some parts of yourself and suppressing others. It's about accepting and embracing them all, finding free breathing and choice.
Then it is much easier to face the unpleasant, to consider, accept and receive the resource.
Imagine being around this kind of atmosphere, and me next to you like this...
Would you like to embrace me gently and kiss me on the cheek, or spin me in a dance? 😍😍
If the answer is yes, then you are ready for intimacy. After all, it's not just about sex, but about some simple things like taking my hand, asking me how I slept, pulling me in for a hug, or throwing a pillow at him laughing loudly and trying to dodge tickling... 🙈
Life consists of such pleasant little things, and you can really enjoy them if you are with the right person. Someone with whom your heart is both calm and passionate at the same time, with whom you can trust boundlessly, and be sure that you will not let yourself fall ❤️️
What is more important to you in a relationship, love or sex? 🤔
It is a very important point to recognize that the whole world is free--everything has the right to be as it is. Until you give the world the freedom to agree or disagree with you, until you give everyone the freedom to love or dislike you, to approve or disapprove of you, to see things as you do or not--until you give the world the freedom it deserves, you will never be free.
And what has always really attracted me to people is the lack of a sense of importance of one's own person. You know, sometimes you talk to someone and mentally admire them, "What a beautiful person in every way! And they don't even realize it. No, it's not modesty, which is often false. It is rather a man's mental balance with the world, from which comes complete naturalness. The more the man draws strength from his own soul, the more his depth becomes, the less he wants to prove something to someone, to resist someone. He just lives, loves, works. But everything he does is fruitful, because it comes from his heart. I really like really deep people who are not afraid of being called superficial. They don't care about that. They usually have a great sense of humor, and they can laugh at themselves. Such people not only know how to be really happy, but they can make you smile even when you do not want to smile. They are easy, because they do not need to drag their importance everywhere. Next to such people the soul is filled and rests.
I wonder if modesty and sexuality can go together? Or does one exclude the other?🤔
If you ask me, you can be too damn modest in life, but depraved in bed. And it's these contrasts that always surprise me. Or do you prefer predictability more? 🙈
All beautiful things happen spontaneously.
The best drawings come out deep at night, when you suddenly encounter inspiration. The paintings come out full of colors and your feelings, like something alive, new, unexplored. You paint and laugh, cry, barely breathe, but you create.
The best photos come when no one is posing. You just manage to capture the smile of a strange girl or the moment a bird flutters from a lilac branch, leaving behind the slight flutter of leaves. These pictures are fuzzy, but mesmerizing and full of life. And you weren't expecting them.
The best lyrics come only after a click in your head. Relax, put on some music, and don't think about anything. The words will come out by themselves. Don't strain your brain to connect a few words, real writers write from the soul, not from the brain (but no one turned off the mind!). Don't chase the muse. The muse will come to you herself and give you a whole world written by yourself.
The best people come into your life when you're not trying to find them. It happens all by itself. The red thread slowly unravels, connecting kindred souls and pointing the true way. They'll know they need you. Don't tear yourself to anyone or dive into the abyss of searching.
All beautiful things happen spontaneously. You just have to wait a little while.
You're drowning in yourself, thinking about everything around you. The next time you find yourself pondering or beating about something, imagine something simple and don't think about it. Look at the trees moving in the wind, or look at how beautiful the world is. The world is too beautiful for you to waste your time on unnecessary thoughts that just sink you🙏💖
Most of all, people get tired of themselves.
Their worries, fears, speculations and worries. From feeling guilty and trying to control everything. The impossibility of not getting ahead and not looking back for a while.
To stop comparing, to stop scaring yourself, to stop creating illusions, to stop thinking for others, to stop having dialogues in your own head💖
I've been thinking about the state of happiness, and I think people get lost when they think of happiness as the ultimate goal.
We always think that one day we'll be happy: we'll buy this car or get this job... or that person will come into our lives and change everything. But happiness is the mood of the relationship state for now, not the ultimate goal. It's like being tired or hungry... it doesn't last forever, it comes and goes, and that's normal. And in my opinion, if people understood this, they would experience and appreciate moments of happiness more often... because it's always with us, it's very natural, and everything else is brought in...
Silence is in great short supply today, not because there are few peaceful places on earth, but because there are few people capable of maintaining the inner stillness of the mind.
After all, there is a string in every heart, and it is bound to respond to even the faintest call of beauty. No matter what anyone says about you, take it all in with a smile and get on with your work. When you have finished a day or a deed, forget about it. All that you could - you already did.
Your opinion of a person is made up of what you yourself are filled with.... It's either your opinions and projections, desires and fears, or your love. Peacefulness is the creation of peace ... know yourself and you will be happy regardless of your circumstances if you take responsibility for yourself first.
It's amazing how just one person who happens to come into your life can radically change your environment, your worldview, your habits, your feelings, your inner world, your thoughts, your actions... just one person, and you don't need more than that... And this person, first of all, is you yourself, this is when there is a harmonious unity.
But it's not very easy, even though it's simple. So let's begin by thanking those who hinder us and acknowledge this fact in ourselves...
When I have the opportunity to say something most important to every person on the planet, I will say, "appreciate what you have now.
You never know,
which kiss will be the last,
what rebuke will never be uttered again,
what conversation will never be repeated, who you will never argue with again, and where you will never go back to again.
You never know how another story in your life will end, but as long as it lasts,
Appreciate every moment, every second, every moment, every moment, Appreciate Life!!!
Enjoy Life🥰💖
One day you will realize that happiness is not about your job, education, or relationships. It is not about following others and being like everyone else. One day you will see that happiness is about discovery, about hope, about listening to your heart and following it wherever it wants to go. One day you will realize that being happy means learning to live with yourself. Your happiness doesn't depend on other people. It is always about you💖❗
mornings don't start with coffee, but with a pleasant conversation, right? I, for example, really like to chat, I hope you can take your mind off this video to chat with me😘
Greetings to all my fans!
Today is my Birthday, and I decided to start saving money for the generator due to the situation in my country. We have no light here for days, and it's hard even to work and survive 😔
You don't have to do it, but if you can support me even with few dollars - you will save my life, and most likely get something in return as a sweet gift from me. Maybe not just once! 😊
This fundraising will help me make more content, and if you become one of people who help me now, be sure I won't forget this! ❤️
This morning, I wanted only one thing, to drink coffee☕ and admire the sunrise in your new underwear, and how do you like to greet the sunrise on your birthday?🎂🎂🥰🥰🥰🥰
Heh, I'm a year older tomorrow, too many things have happened this year to make me change, I wish you could be with me on this day, so go ahead? 🥰💗❤️🔥💝
oh that balcony never could resist a photo on the balcony😂😂 and what are your favorite weird photo spots? 🤭🤭 or you don't really like to take pictures?🙃will you write to me about it?😋
I love tattoos, sometimes when I'm really in the mood🥰 I can come up with a new sketch for a tattoo, would you trust me to do a tattoo on your body?😈 or would it scare you that your tattoo artist is a girl?🤭😏
If a person has a buddy to whom he can tell details of dreams, he has no right to be considered lonely,😏 I would like to be such a buddy for you, you will tell me everything that you dream?🤗 I am ready even if it is something scary, but I have always wanted to play a major role in someone else's dream, do you think I could do it with you?😈😋
It may seem to you that I am a bright and innocent girl. But it only takes us getting to know each other better.... Then we can start a fire🔥🔥🔥
And putting it out will be harder than you think, I'll show you all my passion and emotionality. That you will be amazed - who is this girl 😍😍
But it's just me, who opens up to you from a different side. I want to show you all my sides, even the wildest, wildest and dirtiest 😈😈😈😈
Are you ready to get to know this and me? Are you ready to get into my life and stay there? Ready to stay in my thoughts 24 hours a day? 👀
If you're that brave, be sure to text me in private messages and we'll see what happens 💋
