

It's annoying when people say that if you take a bubble bath or eat chocolate or get your nails done, etc., that will somehow make you level up to where you want to be when it comes to self-love/self-care. These things will NOT get you where you want to be. These things are pleasurable and wonderful and great. If you're fortunate enough to have access to these activities, good on ya. Enjoy, do fun pampering whenever possible --- and spread the wealth if you're able. But you have to do fucking hard work on yourself to level up your life. To truly love yourself, it takes an enormity of non-superficial self-improvement. #dontdeludeyourself xo