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Blowjobs
Drew here (of course with this selection haha) although truth be told Elena would easily pick this one as well.
Let me take a post to praise the oral skills of my amazing wife . Iāve had a fair share of blowjobs but itās never really an act I was able to cum from easily. I donāt recall exactly but Iām pretty sure she was able to get me to finish the first time we were together but often as these things go blowjobs tend to go from focused treat to foreplay to rarity . Thankfully it wasnāt something that was all that rare in our relationship but it was typically a part of the main event as opposed to the main event.
The lifestyle changed a lot . Of course blowjobs become a part of all play dates and she does them not out of duty but of pleasure . She delights in giving pleasure and if she can make a man cum from her oral talents then she will eagerly give them that treat. You can see her enthusiasm in the videos we post . The eye contact , the deep throating, the moving of her mouth across their cock and balls, sometimes going even further back ā¦ whatever it takes to make her partner crumble .
More than once a guy has told us that they just donāt cum from blowjobs . Instead of being deterred she happily looks at it like a challenge and she never wants to lose a challenge . Iāve witnessed everything from a guy losing control within a minute of her starting her oral talents to larger men being shocked as she takes them fully into her mouth to men who never came from oral soon filling her mouth with the creamy reward she craves .
As her partner of 25 years Iāve been the lucky beneficiary of those newly improved oral talents. There is a discernible difference in the blowjobs I receive now from the ones even just a few years ago. They say practice makes perfect and never has a statement been more true because her blowjobs are, in word, perfect .
š**STORY TIME**š
**HER**
She is VERY sensitive to gluten and her hubby had a new beer at the club that she really wanted to try but couldnāt drink. So I took a swig, swallowed, then kissed her everytime she wanted a taste š„°
And after hanging out, flirting, and dancing it was time to play. But all the rooms were filled! And we were horny!
āHow about on the couch?ā She motioned to the huge sectional couch in the main part of the club.
āThe couch?? Iāve blown a guy in the club for everyone to see, but never played in the club. Idk if Iām ready for thatā¦ā I nervously looked around at all the people still in the club, especially the single guys that would definitely be closing in the second our clothes were off.
But she had that look on her face that I couldnāt say no to.
āI gotta use the restroom, then Iāll be right back,ā I assured her.
When I got back, the couch was taken (thank gawd!) and several single guys were sitting on nearby chairs watching & eating pizza! Really??!! I was so thankful that wasnāt us they were watching.
A room then opened up and the four of us quickly took it! And the wait was worth it! She was amazing and beautiful as ever and our husbands watched, as well as got some attention from us (no sex) as a bonus. No pics or vidsā¦itās not her style. So the story will have to suffice š
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Reciprocal Attention and FF Sex
Drew here. I first knew I wanted to watch Elena with other men was over a decade ago when she was traveling for work and told me how this guy was flirting with her . I didnāt have a knot in my stomach or get mad about it . I was harder than Iāve ever been and told her to ādo it ā . She could have but didnāt but it certainly got the discussion going .
Maybe Iām wired different but I didnāt really fantasize about other women. I had my dream woman - why would I think about being with anyone else when this beautiful sexual open woman was my wife that I could be with whenever I wanted . Even when I looked at porn it would frequently be with women who looked like Elena . When she was pregnant I was so turned on looking at blond pregnant porn. When she talked about a coworker who was sexy Iād search up blond milf porn. The lifestyle for me was never about swinging and getting to be with other women but in watching MY wife
get pleasured beyond belief and have these amazing experiences with her fantasy men and yet at the end of the day she chooses me as her partner. Compersion is a real thing
BUT there are moments when someone who doesnāt understand the lifestyle or our dynamic or me will try to denigrate me by calling me a cuck, not a real man, who would allow their wife to do this etc . It doesnāt usually get to me. Some dynamics with our play partners are better than others . Thereās often mutual respect and I get along with these men and we have our own discussions and āfriendshipā but others will push and try to play an alpha card or attempt to box me out of conversations . Some of course only ādealā with me being there because itās a way to get to her. I know it . She knows it and it doesnāt tend to last when it happens .
We are both extremely open sexually and donāt label things and have a āif it feels good do it ā mentality . Sheās been with women and loves seeing me service a guy.. or be serviced . We arenāt attracted to the same sex but in those rooms pleasure is key regardless of gender . But letās be real at the end of the day you have these thoughts of okay, my wife plays with these younger hot studs now Iām sometimes taking a sub role for both and it is fun and there are no judgment or regrets (itās a rule we live by) but there are times where my own thoughts of self esteem and social roles have me doubt myself as an alpha partner, a sexual being beyond the sexual relationship with my wife
Enter swing clubs. When weāve gone to clubs it was also with the intent of meeting singles but sometimes itās fun and relaxing to talk to couples just like us . To have a drink and dance and laugh with others with these āsecretā lives . And I discovered to my own surprise that some of these women liked flirting with me and I enjoyed flirting back. Maybe theyāre doing it to help their husbands be with Elena . Maybe theyāre doing it because theyāre legitimately interested in me, Drew. But as some who didnāt look at other women for 25 years or have those thoughts it was a fascinating feeling . It feels good to be āwantedā even if there was no play involved. It felt better when there was .
Our first full swap happened by accident . And the truth is even with full permission to play I wasnāt ready or comfortable. We didnāt discuss it in detail for months like we do it everything else, swapping wasnāt āusā . Elena gave the green light but i actually fake premature ejaculation because I was so embarrassed I couldnāt get hard for this woman. I just wanted my wife , But I adored the attention .
The self esteem draw for me comes from the flirting with couples we know better rather than just randoms. Knowing I can be charming and make the other person laugh or have them touch me in a flirty way. Sneaking a kiss .
I tend to handle jealousy well in that I donāt really feel it . I get off on Elenaās pleasure . But when she has gotten sooo much attention and cums so easily with some of these play partners and some will try to be dismissive of me or other times Iāll play in a sub role flipping that switch to be more aggressive and finding out that yes, even though Iām pushing 50 and need more time at the gym and thereās less hair on my head than there was 20 years ago I can still be a traditional male and flirt with and seduce an attractive female or former model and make them cum as well. Itās not something that I think about or crave . I tend to still be much more excited about our normal play dates and watching Elena in the throws of passion with someone else but as a guy I still like the feeling of being wanted and appreciated and sexualized by someone other than my wife . And good lord who doesnāt want to see their wife with another woman? Having her play with another female or couple whether Iām involved or not is still the peak hotness and Iām always looking at finding a good match for that because it also serves as nice counterbalance for everything else .
The photos are a few friends we met along the way with me cropped out (cause you all rather see her and ladies than me haha).
So yes today Iām thankful for the beauty that is FF sex and the fact that this old guy still has a bit of āgameā left in the tank
Been a minute since Iāve worn these pants.
Been a minute since Iāve played with HER.
Yes, HER. I do occasionally play with women..and sheās ALWAYS been my favorite. Sweetheart, gorgeous, sexy, funny, great dancer, super MILF, married forever to her HS sweetheartā¦I honestly canāt say enough about her.
I made my intentions quite clear with her and we had a sexy night! Her mouth is the sweetest and softest mouth to kiss!!!
More about our night later but enjoy my outfit for now!
Just a quick preview of @mikesteelgonewild and Iā¦.you can tell from my expression when I find that spot! Such a š„š„š„ time with him! Lots to share this coming week!!
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My 40ās!!!
We canāt turn the clock back! Iām loving my 40ās! Such a great decade of my life, especially the past sev years in the lifestyle.
I know, being an OF content creator, that subscribers have many options. But I donāt compete with the 20 and 30 somethings, or even the 40 somethings. I lived my 20ās (in Miami!) and 30ās (in NY) and those were amazing decades for me. I was clubbing in Miami five times a week, went to college, travelled cross-country several times, got married, had 3 sons, continued my professional life, bought a houseā¦.
But now my kidās are older, more independent, so Drew and I can focus on each other, as well as explore our new kinks in the lifestyle!
And Iām loving myself, my subscribers, all the people on Reddit who share their lifestyle experiences & stories with us! And having no regrets and such a diverse background of life experiences has allowed me to be confident with myself, sell myself as me - Elena - instead of a fake version of who I think I should be. The best compliment I get is when people tell me how āgenuineā I am.
Thatās my goal hereā¦.to be myself, embrace who I am today & right now, and for that I am thankful, especially to you all for appreciating me šš
Hereās what my 40ās look like š
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Lingerie
I only recently started wearing lingerie. Drew and I have been together 25 years so my āsexyā clothes consisted of an old t-shirt and cotton panties. Hey, donāt look so shocked! Iām sure many of your SOās are currently wearing the same.
But then I became a Hotwife and enjoyed wearing something sexy under my clothes to each date. And slowly my collection of lace & silk grew! Now I have an assortment of styles and colors!
My fave still remains as a black lace teddy with a g-string backā¦.and add on a pair of black stockings. Iām tall so I often overlook the heels. Heels are usually by request.
So yeahā¦now I LOVE lingerie and get emails and text messages daily about lingerie sales! Fredericks, VSā¦I even discovered a small (expensive!!) boutique by my house that sells only lingerie. Amazon is a great source too, Sheinā¦the list goes on. And some lingerie I buy for content only. Yupā¦imagine that! If I donāt like the way it fits Iāll still make use of it for photos. Iām resourceful.
Hereās a glimpse of my collection. Feel free to comment on your fave(s).
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**Drew & I**
Hey Loves! Hereās the playtime Drew was polling you about this week! This is the vid from my stationary cameraā¦with absolutely NO EDITS!!!
Iām getting Drew hard, testing camera angles and sex positions on our bedroom chaise. So you get to see all the work involved before itās edited outš
Iāll admit, Iām being lazy but I also like the vid as is! Lmk your thoughts!!!
Drewās POV vid will be shared soon as well.
Enjoy!
PS, Naked & creampie as you requested!!
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Self-Confidence from The Lifestyle
Drew here . Do you know how many years Iāve tried to get Elena to wear the Wonder Woman and Robin costumes that she showed off in our October content ? Sony had just released their new gaming console - The PlayStation 2 (!!!)
The lifestyle has its ups and downs (more on that another day) but whether sheās going to be the hottest GILF in the world 20 years from now playing with her 50 year old boy toys or this all ended tomorrow one of the most positive results of this whole thing has been the confidence itās brought her . Sexy super hero costumes, short skirts, leather pants, flirting with some random host at a restaurant ā¦ sheās gotten over the fear of being relaxed and being herself and being outward about her sex appeal. Oh there are still some issues lingering like when we look at the 35 pics sheās taken for a post and hates each and every single angle pointing out flaws that no human eye would ever pick up on, and things I post on occasion magically disappear because she looks āterribleā in them but overall the sense of self esteem and confidence boost have had profound and positive impacts on her life which then trickles down to everyone else .
Carefree and more stress free the energy she gets from posting and from her play dates carries over to everyday life in ways both subtle and not and I have to chuckle on occasion when people accuse us of not acting our age because the playfulness in everyday life is a direct carry over from the esteem boost sheās gotten from these past almost two years now .
So of course Iām thankful for the boost in confidence this lifestyle has given her which means I am very thankful to all of you - youāre the ones who follow her posts , compliment them, tell her how sexy she is and literally put your hard earned money into seeing more of her. And of course I am eternally thankful for her . Every damn day
Drewās Birthday MFM
Let me backup a moment..I had some downtime at the hotel before our two sexy guests arrived. I arrived wearing my typical casual attireā¦leggings, t-shirt, hoodie but changed into some lingerie to impress the guys. Hereās my transformation.
Would you have been impressed??
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Vacation
We are going away for the whole week of Thanksgiving. Working OT all year has me looking forward to some time off more than ever! And our vacation will include hiking, focusing on family & friends, cooking, baking, sitting by the fire pit, relaxing in the hot tub, shopping at the outlet mall, playing pool & board games, and of course playing!
Drew assures me that we will be naughty on our vacation! āYouāre so used to getting it youāre not going to want to go a week without it,ā he said. Trust me, Iāve gone longer than a week without it š but he has a point. I do love playing!
Weāre staying at the same house we were at last Fall. One afternoon, I snuck upstairs to the third floor master bedroom (my brothers room) and went out on the bedroom deck and dropped my robe! Bare naked outside, I snapped this pic for Reddit. Our fans at the time loved it, and I loved being risky!
A few more weeks and Iāll probably recreate this pic!
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Hot Showers!!
Sometimes itās fun to take the play out of the bedroom and what better place than the shower! The same guy I fooled around with in the dark wanted the lights on in the bathroom so he could wash every inch of my body. And I was extra appreciative and called Drew in to see for himself!
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My Health
This is our new monthly series, a post a day, to honor Thanksgiving. It will include some naughty items on our list, as well as sentimental.
We ALWAYS get asked why & when we entered the lifestyle. I feel like weāve discussed it before, but we have new subscribers joining daily so itās always asked about.
My health was our turning point. A revelation that we are mortal, life is to be appreciated on a daily basis. My health scare began September 2018. A culmination of abnormal tests led me to an oncologistās office where he confirmed, after having received the results of my last biopsy, that I had cancer. Once he said the C word my brain shut down. Drew squeezed my hand and he listened to the doctor. For four months I wanted to rip my body open and cut those cells out! The longer they existed the greater my fear grew. But relief came January 2019 when the doctors successfully removed them, without the need for chemo or radiation. And 2 weeks after my surgery Drewās car got totaled by a cement truck while he was working. That was our wake up call. I switched my life around that year. Enrolled in grad school, got a new job working 3rd shift to enable me to go to school in the daytime. We both recovered. And Spring 2020 we opened our marriage.
My health scare mobilized us to live each day like itās our last. We laugh alot. Tell our friends and family that we love them. Small issues are inconsequential. I kept my cancer crisis to myself. Only Drew, immediate family and my boss knew. I told my best friend the day before my surgery only because my mom threatened to tell her if I didnāt. I wanted no one to know! That ugly word didnāt deserve any recognition and I didnāt want any pity or empathy from anyone.
Only now can I really discuss it. And itās never over unfortunately. I see my oncologist regularly and have a very important test next month. Doctors orders are to remain āstress free, and sleep.ā My play dates are certainly great stress relief!!
Long story shortā¦cancer and a car crash got us playing in the lifestyle. I changed my diet, I work out regularly. I met with a trainer for months to get me comfortable using free weights. I dress sexier. My confidence is boosted. I have more strength and endurance than I had when I was younger!
Iām thankful for my health because without it, we likely never wouldāve opened our marriage!
Hereās some gym pics from this morning. My body is still a work in progress but Iām loving it regardless!!!
I love when chemistry is a hit and play dates are both passionate and fun! @mikesteelgonewild and I chatted quite awhile, schedules aligned, and we finally had fun going four rounds till early in the morning! I havenāt posted any of our content yet (sneak peeks this coming week!) but round 2 is sooner than later! A personal highlight that night was when we returned from the gas station with food (it was very late, nothing was open) and Iād stripped out of my jeans & panties and was walking around the hotel room in just my flannel shirt (I dressed casual for our first play date) and he suddenly grabbed me, bent me over the bed and took what he wanted! I love that dominance and spontaneity š„š„š„š„
Enjoy our first Creampie and youāll soon be seeing our fun!
Drew and I donāt have alot of āalone timeā between the dog (2 yr old black lab, heās like having a toddler at home), the kids, and my wonderful 3rd shift job! Plus, when we have play dates planned Drew understands how I like to edgeā¦so Iām extra horny!!! Often he patiently waits for reclaim sex. But we do have sex after 25 years together and the lifestyle has us hornier than ever! His loads arenāt thick, but Drew still fills me š
šš Itās almost Halloween!! šš
Make me purrrrrrrrrrā¦..
**I blurred my face / expression because it looked goofy! I liked the rest of the pic thoughā¦.
***the next wave of pics are my favesā¦š„š„
I often get asked, āWhat are you wearing?ā Or āWhat do you sleep in?ā
When Iām home, Iām comfortable. Leggings or jeans and t-Shirts. I just slid my jeans & bra off and am taking a nap to recharge my battery for my night out with Drew.
How simple & sexy is a basic white t-shirt?! I love it!
Drew is having a helluva birthday monthā¦.the cherry on top would be to watch me eating pussy but I have the feeling he might be seeing that sooner than later š
I was working on some costume content (Wonder Woman, he loves comics & superheroes) when Drew came in the room, locked the dog out (you might want to watch on mute, sorry for the dog barking), and took me from behind!
Enjoy Drewās cum cameo!!
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Drew just interrupted my first costume content session by bending me over!!! Thatāll be tomorrowās cum shot post š
Heās certainly in his element! Superheroes, stockingsā¦.his perfect storm! š¦š¦
*this is just a sneak peekā¦I couldnāt resist sharing
A fellow fan recently asked me to post more panty pics, and coincidentally I had just purchased some new ones! So hereās todayās panties/thong, brand new, worn under jeans to visit my older brother at his new apartment.
If you want to see more panty picsā¦vote by liking this post and Iāll start posting more. š
PS, Drew smacked my ass earlier and left that mark!!
Hey Fans! Mid-month and Iām extending a huge welcome to the influx of new fans weāve received!!
You couldnāt pick a better month to joinā¦.because itās Drewās birthday month and I tend to spoil him, and itās Halloween, a favorite holiday of ours!
By month-end we will have some super sexy content to share for a variety of fansā¦.great Cuck content (so hot!!!), Hotwife content (even hotter!!!), and bbc content (burning hot!!!!!). Amongst other fun adventures. Didnāt I just say I tend to spoil Drew during his birthday month??!!
In the meantimeā¦.letās focus on Halloween! Vote for your favorite look below: Batwoman or Devil??!
He called Drew over. āTake a picture of this, Drew.ā
I was blindfolded, unaware. āWhat is it?ā I asked.
āThe perfect handprint,ā Drew responded.
I do enjoy a hard hand š„
