So there you are, lying in bed with a beautiful, naked woman. Before you speak, pounce, or babble incoherently, remember this: Not all compliments are created equal. And any woman gracious enough to bare her glorious body in your presence deserves more than a perfunctory “You’re so hot” between love grunts.
2021-01-27 04:06:34 +0000 UTC View Post
Dressing up is fun, especially if you’re going to take it all off slowly.
2021-01-27 04:04:32 +0000 UTC View Post
You might think “anal play” means sticking stuff up your butt, and while that’s certainly part of it, anal play can encompass many a butt-centric sexual activity, like rimming, or anal massage. You can totally engage in anal foreplay without having to have penetration of any kind (be it a toy, a finger, a dildo, a penis) go up you your partner’s bum. Whether you’re just looking to change things up, or just want to take your time with backdoor foreplay before you do dive into penetrative anal sex, anal foreplay can be a super pleasurable addition to anyone’s sex life. The great thing about anuses is everyone’s got one, so you can give and receive to your heart’s content if you so choose. Nowadays, anal sex is no longer the ~taboo~ subject it once was, which is a good thing! Lots of women who've been there and done that say it's a welcome addition to their sexual repertoire. But just like you must walk before you can run, you must have some sort of anal foreplay before you go for the full monty of anal sex. Or, you know, you can do butt play and leave it at that forever, because it's your booty and you make the rules.
2021-01-21 04:06:12 +0000 UTC View Post
Don’t yuck anyone’s yum! you might be surprised when a partner tells you a kink or fantasy, but talk it out, think about it, and engage if you feel comfortable. It might just become yours too!
2021-01-21 04:02:13 +0000 UTC View Post
Women get sexually bored a lot faster than men. If sex becomes repetitive, over time that woman will lose interest in having sex with that partner, Women crave very high amounts of sexual novelty. Women need a lot more time to build up arousal than men do. What you can do as a partner is to start the foreplay, not one or two hours before sex but 24 hours. Recount a sexual encounter and give her little bits of that memory throughout the day. Women love it when you get super descriptive. Just as she is leaving to go to work grab her and give her a deep and passionate kiss. It’s very effective at getting women turned on.
2021-01-16 02:12:08 +0000 UTC View Post
Sex is an important part of a man’s life and health, and age doesn’t have to change that. The most important key to a healthy sex life at any decade is communication with your partner. Honest, open communication about what feels good, what doesn’t feel good, and how you make each other feel is the key to better sex. Finding out what those are via communication can lead to one of life’s greatest pleasures.
2021-01-08 03:54:16 +0000 UTC View Post
Masturbation releases chemicals in your body that relieve stress and just plain make you feel good. A common misconception some people have is if they’re in a relationship, they shouldn’t masturbate. First, it’s important to talk to your partner about how he feels about masturbation and to be clear on what is and isn’t OK. Some couples even try masturbating in front of each other. Not only can this teach you about your partner’s pleasure zones, but it can also demystify the act for your partner. Other misconceptions that exist about masturbation include that it weakens an erection or that too much can harm your penis. While it’s possible to injure or chafe the skin from masturbation, there usually isn’t any harm in it. The only key difference here is to ask if masturbation gets in the way of daily activities or living your life. If the answer is yes, there could be a deeper connection between masturbation for you that you should talk to your doctor about.
2021-01-08 03:51:56 +0000 UTC View Post
When we are told we cannot do something that we want to do ,even if we do not have a particularly strong desire for it , those restrictions make us want to do it even more. Violating taboos creates risk ,and taking on a certain amount of risk can heighten arousal and excitement. This is precisely why public sex is another extraordinarily popular fantasy. The thrill of potentially being caught in the act amps up the intensity of the situation. Because some tend to have more restrictions placed on their sexuality in general, it stands to reason that they have access to plenty of potentially appealing taboos. And among those many pleasurable roadblocks to sexual gratification, cuckolding is one of the most prominent. They are really, really not supposed to let themselves become cuckolds, let alone to long for it. According to this logic, a man who shares his wife with another man doesn’t just violate social and moral dictates for monogamy, but he also violates traditional notions of masculinity. In the eyes of many men, cuckolding is the ultimate form of emasculation and naughty enjoyment. It may, paradoxically, be precisely because of all this that cuckoldry fantasies are so appealing.
2021-01-06 01:10:19 +0000 UTC View Post
Many of us have to unlearn shame around sexuality, and everyone’s barometer for what constitutes “kink” is different. Before bringing up anything to a partner, know that your interests and preferences are valid. Come from a place of vulnerability. Getting it out that you’re feeling vulnerable usually invites your partner into holding a compassionate space for you. Say something along the lines of, “There’s something I’d like to talk to you about, but it’s hard for me because I’m afraid that maybe you’ll think I’m weird. Do you have some time to talk?” or “Hey, do you have the bandwidth to talk about something? I’ve been hesitant to bring it up because I’m scared, but it’s really important to me.”
2021-01-06 01:00:01 +0000 UTC View Post
CUCKOLDING IS OFTEN SEEN FROM THE OUTSIDE AS A KINK FOUNDED IN HUMILIATION AND INADEQUACY BUT THE REALITY IS FAR DIFFERENT FOR MOST COUPLES ACTIVELY INVOLVED IN IT. cuckolding takes the foundation of a stable, loving marriage and extends it to include one or more males who play a specific, sexual role within the relationship. Contrary to popular myth (especially as expressed through porn), sexual inadequacy is only a significant factor in a minority of cuckold couples. For most couples, sharing her is a loving way to expand the boundaries of their relationship and safely explore a more natural approach to human sexuality and relationships.
2021-01-06 00:52:24 +0000 UTC View Post
Hope you have a very merry Christmas 🎄🎁 what are your sexual resolutions for next year ? Be more sexually experimental? Be more confident in the bedroom? Take more sexual risks with your partner? Read at least one sex novel? Watch a type of porn you’ve never seen before? Try new locations ? Try new roll play characters? Learn new knots ?
2020-12-27 01:33:40 +0000 UTC View Post
Sexy undergarments aren’t just for women. If you find the right fit, you can really turn her on. (If you've never tried low-rise briefs, I highly recommend them!)
2020-12-21 22:30:20 +0000 UTC View PostIf you were sexing with me what would you say or send ?
2020-12-10 18:10:10 +0000 UTC View PostSexting is all about the build up. Begin the conversation with an opening that indicates you’re ready to play without revealing too much. Sending a selfie of your cleavage, or hand grabbing your bulge for example, with a simple message of ‘Hey you’ can grab their attention while making your intentions clear of what this thread can become if the person is willing to answer back. I’m always telling people when it comes to sex, to go five times slower than you think — the same goes for sexting. You don’t want to jump straight into sex without a warm-up, so treat your sexts the same way. Ease into your sext dialogue with an “I keep thinking about how hot the other night was” text, and gradually building from there.
2020-12-10 17:57:12 +0000 UTC View PostWhen initiating sexting you must remember that you are in control and you are playing a role. Your role is that of a playful partner who is horny and ready to get into something freaky. Your words, photos, and voice messages can all be used to paint a fantasy for your partner and arouse them to the point of satisfaction.
2020-12-10 17:23:48 +0000 UTC View Post
Some dirty photos sprinkled in
2020-12-10 17:23:05 +0000 UTC View PostAngles are key when taking photos and recording video during sexting. The visuals are the bread and butter of sexy texting and can make or break the experience. Take photos from angles that only reveal the erogenous zones of the body (mouth, neck, bust, thighs, abdomen, booty, feet, pelvic area). Just how provocative you get with the photos is up to you. Taking photos where the camera is angled from above and looking down onto your bust is a good example. Take photos of your booty from the bottom up to make it appear as if it’s in his face.
2020-12-10 17:22:38 +0000 UTC View PostSexting is an art. Written details coupled with dirty clips :)
2020-12-10 17:21:38 +0000 UTC View Post
Some people aren't naturally wet, and that is okay. Guess what? That’s why we have lube. And if you are wet, add some more. Just be sure to select a lube option that won't damage condoms or sex toys during use. The general rule here is oil-based can break down condoms, and silicone-based can wear on silicone toys.
2020-12-06 00:36:41 +0000 UTC View Post
Have the kind of sex you enjoy It sounds simple. Obvious, even. But there is a socially taught method to sex that many people feel they need to follow. This method doesn’t work for all people, so it’s worth pointing out that the only sex you “should” have, is the kind you like.
2020-12-06 00:35:51 +0000 UTC View Post
If you’re nervous, a typical response is that your body will stiffen up. In a sexual setting, this can create difficulties. Holding tension in your pelvic floor and anus means penetrative sex might be more painful.
2020-12-06 00:34:50 +0000 UTC View PostSex does not begin and end in the bedroom. Do your best to keep sexual communication up throughout the day, especially if you have plans to get it on after work. Send out a sexy text around lunch. Forward over a suggestive meme. Let your partner know you’re thinking about them in that way, even when you’re apart. Flirtation is important to maintain within a relationship. It’s a fun way to punctuate the day. Hold on to that energy, when at home and when not.
2020-12-04 18:29:35 +0000 UTC View Post
Sure, the idea of scheduling sex doesn’t sound super hot, but it can help keep things on track. Life is stressful. People get busy. And too often, sex is one of the first things to get bumped lower on our list of priorities. Putting sex on the calendar can help reposition it back on top. Besides, knowing what’s waiting for you later on gives you something fun to look forward to throughout the day.
2020-11-29 03:54:51 +0000 UTC View Post
Using emojis that are known to serve as sexual innuendos can help set intentions without saying a word, the eggplant and banana are often used to represent the penis. A peach represents the booty. A pussy cat references to vagina. The emoji with the tongue sticking out indicates desire, and the raindrops indicate wetness or ejaculate. Knowing emoji sex code can help maintain a code of conduct if you’re sexting in public.
2020-11-28 01:45:55 +0000 UTC View Post
Talking dirty is the guiding light of sexting. The words you use in your messages paint a visual of the fantasy that’s unfolding. You can describe what you’re wearing. You can ask him for naughty photos to make comments about his body and the freaky things you’ll do to him. You can describe how your body is reacting to what he’s sexting you. Your words can also give instruction on what you want your partner to do to themselves while they fantasize about you. You’re leading the way toward their orgasm. Make it count. If you’re looking for some inspiration on what words to use, I suggests turning to steamy romance novels and feminist porn.
2020-11-28 01:45:42 +0000 UTC View Post
If you hate the way condoms make you feel during sex, you might not be wearing the right ones. When picking a condom, find one that fits like a glove, and look for rubbers that are ribbed or ultra-thin. Condoms are highly effective at preventing pregnancy and STIs, so it's worth finding the one that feels best for you.
2020-11-22 00:49:34 +0000 UTC View Post
The more specific you are in your sexy details, the better you and your partner will be able to visualize what you’re fantasizing about, and the easier it will be to keep the conversation going
2020-11-22 00:48:57 +0000 UTC View Post
Do not underestimate the power of a sexy meme or GIF that is in alignment with your mindset about sex. Use memes and GIFs to supplement what you’ve already written. They add more content into the conversation and give you a break from having to be original.
2020-11-22 00:48:18 +0000 UTC View Post
What Is The Clitoris? The clitoris is the central point of pleasure on a woman’s body. While there are nerves throughout the vulva and inside the vagina, this is where the pleasure center is actually situated.
2020-11-22 00:47:25 +0000 UTC View Post