Where Is The Clitoris? The clitoris is easier to find than most guys expect. The inner labia (lips) form a hood just over the clitoris, which is a small bud that slightly protrudes outward. The clitoral hood protects the clitoris from direct stimulation. With at least 15,000 nerve endings concentrated into one area, direct contact can be understandably intense.
2020-11-22 00:46:52 +0000 UTC View Post
Don't think that if it worked the first three times, it will work the next three times. What turns her on may depend on her mood, and where she is in her monthly cycle. Perhaps her nipples are more sensitive or her genitals are less tingly. Pay attention to your partner.
2020-11-22 00:46:13 +0000 UTC View Post
Dune date ? How would you fuck me in the dunes ? On a blanket under the stars ? On top of your RZR ? In the back of your truck ?
2020-11-20 22:50:11 +0000 UTC View Post
Where Is The G-Spot? Finding the G-spot is a little harder than finding the clitoris. This slightly raised, slightly bumpy spot lies in the inner upper wall of the vagina, and not every female can pinpoint exactly where the spot is located, but trial and error is a lot of fun during foreplay.
2020-11-18 18:03:51 +0000 UTC View Post
Whether you’re single or in a relationship, it’s useful to understand your own desires and your own limits and boundaries. A great way to do that is by completing a yes/no/maybe list. The concept is simple — go through a list of different sex acts and indicate yes, no, or maybe as to whether you’re interested in doing them. If you’re in a relationship, this gives you the opportunity to each complete the list separately and then compare notes with your partner, seeing easily where you agree on things and where you’re less closely aligned. It can be a little awkward to admit to the kinky stuff you’re into, but if you commit to filling it out honestly and have a real discussion about it afterward, you’ll be gifted with an opportunity to truly understand each other’s erotic selves. And if you’re single, it’s still a good opportunity to get a better understanding of what you like, what you want, and what you don’t. That kind of thing can be invaluable in a hookup context when you’re being asked to try something you’ve never done before.
2020-11-16 02:30:30 +0000 UTC View Post
Your freakiest sex fantasies are only a slightly awkward conversation away... As human beings, we fear rejection, especially of the genital kind. The stone-cold fact is that some people are freaks and some people are not, so "ordering off the secret menu" requires three things: intuition, honesty, and being chill. Intuition means treating anybody you're having sex with like a rattlesnake. Not that they're going to bite and shoot venom into you (unless you're into that sort of thing), but that you should already know their general thresholds. If your girl is strictly missionary-position Yankee Candle sex, she'll probably have to be eased into light spanking. From there: Talk to her! Be honest! Just say you've "always wanted to try" the thing you're asking for. Make it about you—that way she has an out. "Hey, I'd like to try hang gliding someday" gives her the chance to say, "Me, too! Grab a helmet!" Or she could say, "That's fair! But I don't want to die flying into a mountain." But let's assume she's game to hang glide through your sexual fantasies. If she's in, be chill. Plot out when the zany stuff will go down, proceed gently when the time comes, and never act like you just won an all-access pass to Six Flags: Pervsburg. If you get the sense that she's uncomfortable, be chill about that, too. Rejection sucks, but nobody ever got his asshole massaged by being one.
2020-11-06 19:16:17 +0000 UTC View Post
Seduction is as important as, or sometimes more important than, technique. It helps to know what kind of turn-on your partner likes, whether it’s oral, visual, or mental. Does your partner like it when you talk dirty over the phone or text? Trace your finger slowly up her chest? Flirt with her at a bar?” Also, if you like what you see, say so. Let a woman know how desirable she is
2020-10-30 00:45:49 +0000 UTC View Post
Sex and music are two of the biggest stress relievers
2020-10-29 17:41:04 +0000 UTC View Post
We've called the cock ring the "superfood of sex toys" because it's cheap, easy to use, and can benefit your sex life in so many ways. A snug ring that fits around the base of your penis (and sometimes your testicles, too), it can strengthen your erection, boost your confidence, and make your orgasms more powerful. Opt for a vibrating option, and it could even help stimulate your partner's clitoris or booty.
2020-10-27 20:41:04 +0000 UTC View Post
Because exercise is known to produce feel-good endorphins and lower cortisol levels, working out reduces stress and, in turn, helps maintain a healthy sex drive. Dr. Penhollow points out that exercise is known to reduce depression as well, which is another condition that can have a negative effect on your libido.
2020-10-22 15:49:29 +0000 UTC View Post
Strength training, Kegels, yoga, walking, and swimming may all improve sexual function and libido in both men and women. One-time acute exercise sessions seem to boost sexual arousal via activation of the sympathetic nervous system, but it's unclear whether this finding holds in habitual exercisers
2020-10-22 15:47:23 +0000 UTC View Post
Take time to know yourself. "Know thyself" said Aristotle. When you know who you are, you can be wise about your goals, your dreams, your standards, your convictions. Knowing who you are allows you to live your life with purpose and meaning.
2020-10-19 15:11:34 +0000 UTC View Post
Be adventurous. Maybe you’ve never had sex on the living room floor or in a secluded spot in the woods; now might be the time to try it. Or try exploring erotic books and films. Even just the feeling of naughtiness you get from renting an X-rated movie might make you feel frisky.
2020-10-14 16:54:24 +0000 UTC View Post
Use alcohol in moderation. Some men with erectile dysfunction find that having one drink can help them relax, but heavy use of alcohol can make matters worse. Alcohol can inhibit sexual reflexes by dulling the central nervous system. Drinking large amounts over a long period can damage the liver, leading to an increase in estrogen production in men. In women, alcohol can trigger hot flashes and disrupt sleep, compounding problems already present in menopause.
2020-10-14 16:52:43 +0000 UTC View Post
Physical activity is first and foremost among the healthy behaviors that can improve your sexual functioning. Because physical arousal depends greatly on good flow, aerobic exercise (which strengthens your heart and vessels) is crucial. And exercise offers a wealth of other health benefits, from staving off heart disease, osteoporosis, and some forms of cancer to improving your mood and helping you get a better night’s sleep. Also, don’t forget to include strength training.
2020-10-14 16:50:12 +0000 UTC View Post
Maintain physical affection. Even if you’re tired, tense, or upset about the problem, engaging in kissing and cuddling is essential for maintaining an emotional and physical bond.
2020-10-14 16:47:35 +0000 UTC View Post
Many couples find it difficult to talk about sex even under the best of circumstances. When sexual problems occur, feelings of hurt, shame, guilt, and resentment can halt conversation altogether. Because good communication is a cornerstone of a healthy relationship, establishing a dialogue is the first step not only to a better sex life, but also to a closer emotional bond.
2020-10-14 16:46:36 +0000 UTC View Post
The key to a great marriage – keep the fights clean and the sex dirty.
2020-09-27 02:47:53 +0000 UTC View Post
Sex is more than an act of pleasure, it’s the ability to be able to feel so close to a person, so connected, so comfortable that it’s almost breathtaking to the point you feel you can’t take it. And at this moment you’re a part of them.
2020-09-27 02:36:22 +0000 UTC View Post
Shifting the focus off of evaluating your performance and onto enjoying the sensations you’re experiencing is one of the keys to great sex. Live in the moment and think about the journey as a whole instead of mentally fixating on one destination: orgasm. Try to be present at every stage of the process from foreplay to climax and beyond. If you or your partner get stuck somewhere along the way—for example, perhaps your erection goes away—that’s okay. This doesn’t mean it’s not coming back! Shift to other activities like kissing and pleasuring your partner and try to clear your head. By tuning back into the physical sensations and tuning out the distracting thoughts, you’ll likely find that you’re “up” again in no time. And if your erection doesn’t return, you ejaculate early, or you don’t orgasm at all, remember that the experience can still be fun and enjoyable for everyone and that next time can be different.
2020-09-21 04:35:24 +0000 UTC View Post
The myth that bigger is better costs countless men sexual self-confidence and self-esteem. There's countless articles promising pro tips on how to compensate for your average-sized cock. And the message that I want to tell people is that there’s no need to compensate! You are not sexually broken. You are good enough. Love the penis you have. It’s not just a size issue, either. Guys often extend mistaking a big penis for a “good” one as mistaking deep penetration for sexually satisfying penetration. The reality, however, is that shallow penetration can be more desirable for a number of reasons, Not only are the most sensitive nerve endings of the vagina located in the outer third of the canal (sometimes referred to as the orgasmic platform), but other orgasm hot spots like the G-spot and the frenulum of the penis light up with pleasure at a shallow depth. Its more about compatibility, and not competition. For every vagina, there’s a penis that’s too small, too big, or just right. The goal isn’t to love the penis you have despite its size; the goal is to love the penis you have because every size has pros and cons.
2020-09-18 22:05:59 +0000 UTC View Post
Good sex is about pleasure, but it’s possible for that to get lost in the shuffle. It may sound counterintuitive, but some guys get so focused on being “good” at sex that they forget to enjoy themselves and that can mean that it’s hard for their partners to have fun, too. If you’re so focused on making your partner cum that you make them feel tense or stressed out, that’s not a recipe for good sex! Instead of the end goal being an orgasm, the end goal should be everyone enjoying the experience. The more you’re able to relax, live in the moment and explore your pleasure and your partner’s without having rigid expectations and goals the more likely it is that everyone will come out of the sexual experience having gotten what they want.
2020-09-18 21:45:42 +0000 UTC View Post
As Cardi B says “Put this pussy right in your face/Swipe your nose like a credit card.” You should be using more than just your tongue. You need to get your whole face in there...If a filmmaker were capturing the event, very little would be seen beyond the still back of your head.
2020-09-13 17:03:55 +0000 UTC View Post
Ideally, you want your partner lying flat on their back, legs spread but not too far apart. As a rule, her legs should always be closer together than farther apart, as she needs the full command of her pelvic muscles, Also, the back arch that we’ve all been taught is “sexy” according to porn and movies is actually not what aroused people do, and can cut off flow to the vagina and hamper breathing, both of which are important in getting turned on. Instead, when a woman is actually aroused, her back will be flat...and her genitals will be tilted slightly up. Basically the opposite of what we’re used to seeing.
2020-09-13 17:02:15 +0000 UTC View Post
The clitoris isn’t just a button above the vagina. It is, in fact, deep and wishbone shaped. What we call the clitoris is the only external part of the clitoris or the glans clitoris. I don’t tell you this to encourage you memorize anatomical charts, but to let you know that there are a whole lot of nerve endings down there that are getting ignored if you only focus on one tiny spot. Inside the legs of the wishbone are what are called clitoral bulbs, which are kind of like air bags wrapping around the entrance to the vagina; they have erectile tissue in them and are part of getting aroused.
2020-09-13 16:58:16 +0000 UTC View Post
Despite what we’ve been told, oral sex isn’t actually a part of foreplay. You actually have to build to it. Going right into oral sex as an opening act could maybe be hot if you’re already really turned on, but that should almost never be your opening salvo. It’s really important to get the body and the nervous system sensitized to levels of arousal where that kind of direct stimulation of the clitoris is wanted. In other words, slow your roll. Make out for a while first, give each other a massage—do things that build up the anticipation before you dive in.
2020-09-13 16:56:31 +0000 UTC View Post
Modern life is more fast-paced than ever, and we’ve all got a lot of day to day demands on our time. From work stresses to parental responsibilities, finance worries and important calendar dates, we could all definitely use a break every once in a while! In fact, that may well be truer than you think. Proper relaxation is key to being able to function effectively, no matter what you spend your days doing.
2020-09-12 00:55:12 +0000 UTC View Post
Don't watch too much DV porn, it can be unrealistic! We also enjoy it when I'm on top or in reverse cowgirl with a guy holding my arms to support me. Sometimes one dick works better on the bottom than the other--be ready to try a few different positions, and when you first get them both in, just hold still and stay in deep for a bit. Start with slow motions and you're more likely to stay in as she stretches. And if she's not used to stretching, get her very prepared before you go for it. Happy playing!
2020-09-09 18:40:15 +0000 UTC View Post
When in a relationship or a fantasy with one woman and two men where both men are straight or bi you can have a lot of fun with the dvp position. I personally love DVP and Have done it frequently. Both of the men got over the penis touching very quickly... I’m talking seconds. It quickly became about the new sensations and me screaming with pleasure of having both lovers in me at the same time. Body and penis sizes matter when it comes to finding the best position for DVP. In our situation we found what works best is for one boyfriend to be on the bottom, I ride him and The other man comes from behind. If you find what you’re doing isn’t working well switch around your positions. Use lube, even if it’s just a little. It helps everyone move and if you or him shave your shaft it helps reduce irritation. Don’t expect all of you to cum together. We’ve done it dozens of times and only once did the stars align and we all came together naturally from the heat of the moment. I should also add we do not use condoms so I can’t speak to the experience if condoms are used. If you are in a monogamous relationship you can still dvp with a toy. I prefer to be in doggy style position for the penetration with a toy with the top on top and the cock on the bottom.
2020-09-09 18:24:34 +0000 UTC View PostDon’t be shy! Turn on the lights or put mirrors where you can actually see the action. It’s arousing, sexy, and wild at the same time!
2020-09-08 01:39:37 +0000 UTC View Post